Beginners Guide to Using Sex Toys
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Ready to spice things up but not sure where to start with sex toys? You’ve come to the perfect place! Sex toys are an exhilarating way to explore new pleasures, whether you’re flying solo or with a partner. With so many tantalizing options, it can feel a bit overwhelming at first, but fear not! The key is to have fun and experiment to find what tickles your fancy.
Toy Time: What to Use and How to Use It
Vibrators are like the rock stars of sex toys, perfect for solo or duo play. They come in all shapes and sizes, offering a symphony of sensations. To use a vibrator, just turn it on and let it dance across your skin, exploring different spots. For an extra buzz, add a splash of water-based lube. Some vibrators are designed for external thrills, while others are all about those deep, internal vibes. There are even vibrators made for grinding—no shame in that game!
Air Pressure Toys aka suction toys, the trendsetters of the toy world. These little wonders use air pressure to pulse and tap, creating a sensation that’s out of this world. Just position the nozzle over the clitoris and let the magic happen. No need to press down hard—think of it like enjoying the thumping bass at a concert.
Butt plugs come in all sizes, so start small and work your way up if you’re feeling adventurous. Slather on plenty of lube for both the plug and you, then gently insert it. If it feels uncomfortable, pause and adjust. Once it’s in, you can wiggle and explore the different sensations.
Masturbation sleeves are fantastic for solo play, simulating the feel of a partner’s touch. Made from soft materials like silicone, they’re a delight to use. Lubricate generously, slide the penis into the sleeve, and explore the varied sensations. They come with different textures and even open-ended designs for partner play.
Cock rings, usually crafted from stretchy silicone, add an extra zing to your experience. Lube up, slip the ring around the base of the penis, and get ready for enhanced pleasure and prolonged play. Remember, though, don’t wear one for more than 30 minutes at a time.
Dildos are a must-have in anyones toy collection, available in endless shapes and sizes. Start with a smaller size, about 1-1.25 inches in diameter, and use plenty of lube. Some dildos have suction bases, perfect for sticking to walls, shower stalls, or chairs. If you’re into riding, try a thigh harness for partnered play or wrap it around a pillow if you're going solo.
Embrace the Fun! Ultimately, sex toys are all about discovering what feels sensational for you and/or your partner(s). Enjoy the adventure, experiment, and find your perfect match.
And part of experimentation is also interacting with toys in different scenarios, so here's a quick snippet of solo and partnered play...
Going solo? Awesome!
Start by getting to know your body and the kinds of sensations that make you tingle. Touch yourself, take your time, and discover what you like. When you’re ready to introduce a toy, start slow and gradually ramp up the intensity. Pay attention to your body’s responses and stick with what feels amazing.
Bringing toys into partnered play? Fantastic!
Communication is key—chat about your desires and boundaries openly. Discuss what turns you both/all on and any safety concerns. Once you’re on the same page, dive into the fun together. Keep the conversation going and tweak your approach based on feedback.
Ready to play? Go ahead and dive into the world of vibrators, butt plugs, masturbation sleeves, cock rings, and dildos. Strap in and strap on... Lets get this party started!