Keep Calm Lube On

What you need to know about the un-sung hero of intimacy!
 
In the world of sexual wellness, there's a silent champion that doesn't always get the spotlight it deserves… lube. Whether you're a novice or a seasoned pro, lube can enhance intimacy, pleasure, and comfort in ways you might not even realise. We’re going dive into what you need to know about this essential bedroom accessory.
Whether you're looking to improve your sex life, spice things up in the bedroom, or make solo play more enjoyable, lube can be a game-changer. Lube isn't just for emergencies—it's for enhancing pleasure, an opportunity to open conversations with your partner(s) about your desires and boundaries, as well as making encounters more enjoyable. After all, life's too short for dry spells!
 
Need some extra lube to get going? Own it! 
Want to introduce toys into the mix? Go for it!
Honesty and communication are the ultimate aphrodisiacs.
 
These are the advantages we think about:
 
Enhanced Comfort: Lube reduces friction, allowing for sex to be more comfortable and enjoyable for everyone involved. It can prevent irritation, chafing, and discomfort, especially during longer or more vigorous sessions.

Increased Pleasure: Contrary to popular belief, lube doesn't diminish sensation—it enhances it. It can intensify the sensations of touch and friction, leading to more pleasurable experiences for all partners.
 
Versatility: Lube isn't just for penetrative sex. It can enhance all kinds of sexual activities, including foreplay, masturbation, and the use of sex toys. No matter what you're into, lube can make it even better.
 
Care: When used liberally, lube can prevent microtears (ouch!) in the skin; reducing the risk of STI transmission. That's the magic of lube, folks! It's not just about making things wetter; it's about making things better.
 
Start Slow: Apply a small amount of lube at first, then add more as needed. You can always reapply during sex if things start to dry out.

Experiment: Don't be afraid to try different types of lubes and see what works best for you. Everyone's body is different, so what works for one person may not work for another.

Communicate: Talk to your partner(s) about your preferences and desires when it comes to lube. Communication is key (as always!) to a satisfying sexual experience for all parties.

Have Fun: Lube can add an extra element of fun and excitement to your sex life, so don't be afraid to get creative with it.

Share the Love: Don't be shy about applying lube to yourself or your partner(s)—it's all part of the fun!

Toy Time: Your toys deserve some love too!
 
Anal Play: When it comes to anal, lube is non-negotiable! 
 
 
Water-based Lubes are the most common and versatile type of lubricant. They are safe to use with condoms and sex toys, easy to clean up, and usually suitable for people with sensitive skin.
 
Some lubes have ingredients that no right-minded person would willingly put anywhere near their bodies; hiding behind different names or just plain hiding, some ingredients really are the pits.
 Avoid the obvious like flavours and artificial fragrances (a vagina should smell like a vagina and not like a pineapple!). You don’t have to go down the 100% free from route, but it’s always best to research and avoid the nasty chemicals that can destroy your skins natural microbiome and can alter a vaginas ph. 
We advise avoiding lubes containing nonoxynol-9 and chlorhexidine gluconate.
 
A big no to slapping on cooking oil or coconut oil (yes, we’ve heard some stories!)
Not only does it stain your bedsheets and break down condoms, but the sugars can also feed bacteria so if your prone to BV or thrush it can aggravate your body.
 
 
 
Vaginas aren’t always wet; penises aren’t always hard! Sometimes a strap on can come loose or the vibrator isn’t charged! But ‘Keep calm and LUBE ON’!