We’re Bringing Sexy Back

We’re diving into the world of self-love, intimacy, and getting your groove back after having kids.
 
Getting to Know Your Body

Your body has been on quite the journey since becoming a parent - stretch marks, sleepless nights, and endless cuddles have left their mark. 
Those marks are a testament to the incredible journey you're on; take a moment to celebrate your body, from head to toe, and appreciate all that it has accomplished. Treat yourself to some self-care rituals that make you feel like the gorgeous, bad ass parent that you are. Whether it's a bubble bath, a dance party in your living room, or a bougie spa day. Show your body some love and gratitude for all that it does.
I have had to re-learn my body and my identity, remembering that I am more than just ‘mum’. I am a person who wants to be desired and with the bodily changes (as well as mental changes!) it has taken me a long time to get to the point where I could look at my body and understand the trauma that had happened - and to my tits alone! But there’s a great power in being a mother and knowing that I fed two kids with my body… and if you don’t like my wonderful tits as they are, then you don’t get to look at or touch them. 
 
Finding Time for You and Your Partner

In the whirlwind of parenting, finding time for yourself and your partner can feel like a Herculean task. But trust us, it's worth the effort! Carve out some kid-free time, whether it's a spontaneous date night or cozy movie marathon than ends in you getting fingered on the sofa. Making time for laughter, love, and physical connection is important.
Even with older kids (my kids are 12 and 10) I still must make time for me and my partner. The hourly feeds may have ended, but the endless school runs, sports clubs and singing lessons take their toll… add in the big kid later bedtimes and it feels like I get even less time to me and in turn ‘us’ as a partnership. To answer your question, yes, I do lock myself in the bathroom once a week to make sure I get off! 
 
 
Find Your Version of Sexy

Embrace your sensuality and desire by exploring what makes you feel confident and empowered. Feeling sexy and desired isn't just reserved for special occasions - it's a mindset, a feeling, a way of being.
You deserve to feel confident, sexy, and empowered, no matter where you are on your parenting journey. And let's not forget the power of communication in intimacy. Sharing your desires and fantasies with your partner can lead to some seriously steamy moments. 
 
Not sure where to start? Don’t worry, because we’ve got you covered!

Sex toys are like a choose-your-own-adventure book for your body. Experiment with different shapes, sizes, and sensations to discover what makes you feel amazing. It's all about exploring and having fun along the way.
Using sex toys isn't just about getting off - it's about embracing your body, feeling empowered, and celebrating your sexuality. So go ahead, treat yourself to a new toy.
Yes, those buzzing, vibrating, and tantalising gadgets can be your ticket to a whole new world of self-exploration and pleasure. Think of them as your own personal pleasure arsenal, ready to boost your confidence and spice up your sex life.

We advocate for sex toys, but they might not be for you. So please remember to always be open about your likes and dislikes, as well what feels right and comfortable for you… and this may change!